Heart to Heart – Our Greatest Challenge
A few weeks ago, I asked a diverse group of gay men and women from all over the world what they thought was the greatest challenge to the gay community. I gave them a list of choices to choose from,...
View ArticleHow Gay Should We Be?
Running down the street jumping off roof tops brazed in pride colors from head to toe, driving down the street in your car with your rainbow stickers plastered to the back, strolling through the...
View ArticleThe Good, The Bad, and the Partner
There is so much that's been said about gay male relationships. They don't last past two years, they're not monogamous, they hold no validity. All this may be true in many cases of gay men...
View ArticleDead at Thirty?
I was looking through a popular mainstream gay publication the other day. As I drummed through the pages as I normally do, skipping through to the good parts. It dawned on me… Almost every ad...
View ArticleSex, Drugs, and Gay Men
Sex, drugs and gay men. What a combination. I can only say that it's not a combination I would like to be a party to, at least not any longer. What comes from this? All this sex, all...
View Article“Don’t Ask, Just Hide”
Military, sports, boy scouts; oh my. What next, our schools? What does it take, when will they learn and how can we drill it into the heads of hetero people. Being gay is not something you learn,...
View ArticleHeart to Heart – A True Hero
There's a lot of talk about heroes these days. You can barely go a minute without hearing about the 9/11 heroes, or the heroes of the war on Terrorism, or the heroes of the war on Iraq. It would seem...
View ArticlePost Gay? No Way!
The term “post-gay” keeps popping up in the GLBT media lately. And that worries me a lot. On-line thesaurus Word Spy defines post-gay as “a movement to enable homosexuals to define their identity by...
View ArticleLong, Hard Look: Separate But Unequal
Should oppressed people oppress others? For some African-Americans, the answer is yes. The raucous scene blew my mind. It took place in 1994: I was involved in a demonstration outside of Baltimore’s...
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